‘Out of My League’: Your First Message?

Here’s solid advice, as swiped from /r/okcupid:

The first message:

Probably way out of my league, but I thought I’d still try…

The response received:

You would have been far better off sending me a different message. This shows a lack of confidence…

So, buddy strikes out by showing a lack of confidence. Women love a confident man. Worst case, fake it. And he seemed like her type, too!

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